Sunday, January 1, 2012

Start today...

God makes three requests of His children:
Do the best you can, where you are, with what you have, now.
(African American proverb) 

For me, this is timeless proverb is a great way and place to start this is year. I recommend that you join me and make God's 3 requests your
resolutions for life.
Whatever (and all) you do this year, please use all that God has blessed you with to do what He has asked you to and start today. Just as money loses value over time, so does the impact you could make - it can lose value too if wrongly timed. Now is the best time...to do what you have been called to. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us (Prov 27:1); Today is the "present" - make it a gift...
Start today to do the best you can... 

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Be Excited

It's almost the end of this year...we should all Be Excited...

Well, I know that the year may not have turned out the way you planned but the fact is you are still here which means that the best is still yet to come. I like to remind people that their past and present put together are nothing compared to their future - that thought alone should make and keep you excited.

Ann Landers put this so nicely: "Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies." Think about it: for those who drive, have you ever been able to go forward "safely" while looking in your rear-view mirror? I haven't.

The only time it makes sense to use your rear-view mirror is when parked in a garage or a spot where going forward is not possible. In such cases, you only go backwards in order to go forward - that's also how we should live our lives. We all need to look-back on the past year to identify areas for improvement or development but looking back and reliving past glories or "sorries" will not take us forward. In other words: "if you are still talking about what you did yesterday, you haven't done much today."* No one can rewrite the past but we can all create a glorious future and that is enough to be excited about.

Get ready to go forward: a great & exciting year awaits us!

Sources:
*Author unknown

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Aspire to inspire...

I've said it more than once: there is more to your life than just your own life.

As long as we respire, we must all aspire to inspire others before we expire. 

Besides the personal satisfaction of living for more than yourself and making a difference where you are, "if your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader."* As you plan for 2012:
Aspire to inspire others ...

With 30 days to go to the end of this year,
I've started considering possible resolutions -
this is one for sure...
Reference:
*John Quincy Adams

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Empower others...

...purposely and purposefully

“The beauty of empowering others is that
your own power is not diminished in the process.”
~Barbara Colorose
To add to that, empowering others puts you in a unique position:
You are a valuable resource to more people than you may ever know.

Bottom line:
You are valuable - do things of value for and to others...empower them.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Be ALIVE!

Don’t ask yourself what the world needs,  
ask yourself what makes you come alive.
And then go and do that.
Because what the world needs is people who are alive.
~Howard Thurman
As we wind down this year and you look back and assess all your ambitions, accomplishments and "almost-theres," take a moment to relive the moments when you felt most alive. In planning for the year to come - in 60 days - recreate those moments in other aspects of your life and for other people. Sooner than later, you'll be meeting more needs of more people just because you have decided to be really and truly ALIVE (Active, Loyal, Insping, Virtuous, Empowering). 

Remember, empowered women excel because they've got and give the power...

Being alive is God's greatest gift...do your part to keep giving every way you can.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

What if they don't believe?

2 months or so ago, we asked ourselves the question "Who are you?" As God will have it, a week earlier I received this piece - Today's word from Joel & Victoria Osteen - and it tied nicely with that question (comments & italics mine).

Scripture: “What if some did not believe? Shall their unbelief make the faith of God without effect?” (Romans 3:3, KJV)

So often, people allow the opinions of others to hold them back and water down their dreams. We have to realize, there will always be critics and naysayers in life. One of the most important things you can learn is that other people don’t have to believe in you in order for your dreams to come to pass. Other people don’t set the limits for your life — you do. It’s not what others say about you that affects your life, but what you say and believe about yourself. In today’s verse, the apostle Paul is saying, “It doesn’t matter if other people don’t believe. Their unbelief is not going to keep me from believing in my dreams.” When God puts a promise in your heart, it’s not up to other people to bring it to pass, it’s up to you!

You don’t need everyone to validate you. You have to follow the voice of God for yourself and allow Him to order your steps.

Today, know that God sees the hidden treasures inside of you. He wants to bring those treasures out and make your dreams reality. As you get rid of the old, defeated thoughts and replace them with what God says about you, you will remove the limits so you can live the abundant life God has in store for you!
EW: We are empowered to "deal" with (& displace) others' disbelief when we can hear (& heed) God's voice (see: http://sapphire-and-beryl.blogspot.com/2011/09/voice.html)

Saturday, October 1, 2011

“You know some­thing, we’re eagles, we’re not chickens.”

There was a farmer out in the forest and he heard gunshots. He walked to where the shots were fired and found on the ground two eagles lying there. Somebody shot both of those eagles.

As he stood there, all of a sudden he heard a little noise and he looked up and there was a nest up above. You could hear little eagles in the nest. So he climbed up that tree and looked in the nest to find two little eaglets. He didn’t know what to do so he put them in his pocket and climbed back down the tree and went back home.

He was trying to figure out what he should do with the baby eagles so he said to himself, “I’ll just put them in with the chickens.” He took them out to the chicken coop and put those eagles there.

As time went on they grew a little bit and one day they were talking with each other in eagle language. And one said to the other, “You know, we’re different. We don’t look like them.” Then the other one said, “Don’t be talking like that. We’re chickens. I talked to some of those chickens and they told us that we’re chickens. So don’t be talking like that.”

Time went on and they grew a little bit. Pretty soon one came back and said, “You know, we are really different.” The other said, “Just shut up! They taught us how to crow, we flap our wings like they do, we walk like they do, we do everything like they do. We’re chickens.”

Summer came and one of the eagles went walk­ing down a path and kind of strayed away from the flock. As he got into the forest a little bit he began to hear laughter. It was a really hard, gut-bar­rel laughter. He looked up to see an owl sitting in a tree. So the eagle looked up at the owl and said, “What are you laughing at?”

The owl kept on laughing and he said, “I’m laughing because you’re acting like a chicken. You’re an eagle but you’re acting just like a chick­en.” But right away the eagle says, No, “I’m a chick­en.”
“No,” said the owl, “you’re an eagle!” The owl couldn’t convince him so finally the owl flew down and landed by the eagle land he said, “I want you to get on my back and hang on.”
So he got on the back of that owl and the owl took off down the runway and made elevation and started riding the air cur­rents.

Pretty soon the owl was way up in the sky. He said to his passenger, the eagle, “This is you. You soar with the wind. You look way out. You can fly higher than anything.”

The eagle is hanging on the owl and he’s so scared of the height and he’s saying, “No, I’m a chicken, I’m a chicken. Get me back down. By then the owl is getting ready and he says, “I really hate to do this to you but I’ve got to do it.” The owl just flipped over.

The eagle went tumbling through the air and the owl dived down alongside the eagle and he said, “Spread your wings, spread your wings.”

“I can’t, I cant.”

“Spread your wings!”

But pretty soon the eagle started to put out his wings and the wind started to catch them, and all of a sudden…all of a sudden, he just started soar­ing. He couldn’t believe that he was soaring. He was just amazed.

After a while he landed and went back to the chicken coop and the other eagle was still sitting in there. He was trying to snag those chickens, and all that stuff. Making the moves and compet­ing with the roosters, but the other eagle said, “Brother, come over here.” He whispered into his ear and he said, “You know some­thing, we’re eagles, we’re not chickens.”

But then the other eagle got indignant and said, “Oh no! Don’t you be talking like that. They trained us, they told us what we are. I can do it really good. I can be a chicken really good.” “No,” the other eagle said, “that’s not who we are.” They argued a little bit and the one who had flown said, “I want you to come for a walk with me.” He took his brother for a walk and met the owl, and together they put him on the owl and up they went, riding the air currents, just like the other time. Pretty soon the owl flipped over and down came the eagle with his wings out. He began to soar. And he learned. He learned that he, too was an eagle.


Personally, my take-aways (and give-aways) from this story are:

 You never know what (and how much) you can do until you try.
Surround yourself with people who will encourage you to fly.
The fact that you have never flown doesn't mean you can never fly
... you need to be willing to try. 
Get ready to spread those wings and fly...
no-one can do your flying for you
You can achieve great heights - when you spread your wings. Woman! Just go for it...fly


Look inwards then step out...