Tuesday, May 1, 2012

About attitudes

Here are 10 quotes about attitudes:

You cannot control what happens to you,
but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you,
and in that,
you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.
~ Brian Tracy

 The problem is not the problem;
the problem is your attitude about the problem.
~ Author Unknown

Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference. ~Winston Churchill

Attitudes are contagious. Are yours worth catching?
~Dennis and Wendy Mannering

Wherever you go, no matter what the weather,
always bring your own sunshine. ~Anthony J. D'Angelo

 

Could we change our attitude, we should not only see life differently,
but life itself would come to be different. ~Katherine Mansfield

Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us.
~ John N. Mitchell

Our attitudes control our lives. Attitudes are a secret power working twenty-four hours a day, for good or bad. It is of paramount importance that we know how to harness and control this great force. ~ Irving Berlin
 
Having a positive mental attitude is asking how something can be done rather than saying it can't be done. ~ Bo Bennett
 
The only disability in life is a bad attitude. ~ Scott Hamilton

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Sunday, April 15, 2012

The Eagle's Attitudes...


Eagles come in all shapes and sizes,
but you will recognize them chiefly by their attitudes.
E. F. Schumacher

Likewise, each of us is unique.
You cannot be like any other person...
You are you - period.

You are not anyone else. No matter how hard you try, you will only be second to the person you're trying to be like - a copy not an original. 

"Today you are You, that is truer than true.
There is no one alive who is Youer than You."
~ Dr Seuss 


So you need to have the right attitude(s) to attain high altitudes,
"Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference."
~ Winston Churchill

Do you have an eagle's attitudes? One of the eagle's attitudes is flying in the eye of the storm. An Empowered Woman is an Enlightened Woman. Sir Francis Bacon said: "knowledge is power" and you can only apply what you know not what you don't - so I encourage you to look up other eagle attitudes and cultivate them.

When you do, you will find out and agree with Zig Ziglar that:
"Your attitude not your aptitude determines your altitude."

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Be Expectant

Expectant means:
  • "excitedly anticipating something: excitedly aware that something is about to happen; and
  • expecting something favorable: expecting something, especially something that will bring success or wealth" *
We should all be able to say like David: "My soul, wait only upon God and silently submit to Him; for my hope and expectation are from Him."** Simply because Jeremiah 29:11 tells us: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end."***

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Dress-sense

I've found that people think that having dress-sense is "following fashion" and that cannot be further from the truth. I'll let Gabrielle "Coco" Chanel and Quentin Crisp help me here - respectively:
"Adornment is never anything except a reflection of the heart."

"Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are."
I totally agree that "to be a fashionable woman is to know yourself, know what you represent, and know what works for you.  To be "in fashion" could be a disaster on 90 percent of women.  You are not a page out of Vogue." (Author Unknown)

Like I said earlier, you can get ideas for others but must never stop being yourself. Who you are speaks in what you wear. I was intrigued to find out what some colours reflected. Since knowledge gained is knowledge shared, let me share a few:
  • Black - authoritative, in control
  • Grey/Gray - professional and dignified
  • White - simple, innocent and maybe na·ïve
  • Brown - friendly, approachable and down-to-earth 
  • Blue - confident, conservative, calm and caring
  • Green - growth, vitality and prosperity
  • Purple - regal and sophisticated
  • Red - power and passion

I'd really like to know what "Rainbow" would stand for - like I said I usually prefer "one-for-many" type jackets or accessories. The truth about dress-sense to me is like Cecil Beaton said: "The truly fashionable are beyond fashion."

Radiate who you are in what you wear and it will reflect positively in what you do. You can be a trend-setter, an original not a copy-cat...just dress well and sensibly.

P.S.
You can read some more about colours here:
http://www.empower-yourself-with-color-psychology.com/color-meanings-in-business.html 
http://www.precisionintermedia.com/color.html

Thursday, March 1, 2012

The essence of dress-sense

I attended a First Impressions session for some young ladies getting into the work force where a lot of good things were said. When the volunteer presenter, who is a Style/Image consultant, said: "Dress for the job you want, not the job you have" it stuck with me. I don't know who the author of this quote is (checked the internet) so I'd rather dwell on how this should guide our quest to dress for success. 

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Fast track to leadership

For years there has been an ongoing debate on whether leaders are born or bred - one I'm sure will continue for time to come so I won't get into it. One thing I have learned by experience is that whether you are a born or bred leader is that there is a fast track to leadership. Everyone, including me, likes a fast track - so let's go on...

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Be Educated

Sometime ago I heard, or was it read, a very interesting and profound statement - though I cannot remember who said it, I cannot forget what it said to me.

If I recall correctly, it was:
"An educated man is only an educated man,
an educated woman is an educated family."

It seems pretty harsh (& almost unkind) to say...wait a minute, before you "switch off", let's dissect (read between the words) &  hopefully digest it for our good...



It said at least 5 things to me:

Look inwards then step out...