...and inspire others
If you always hurt people with intimidations instead of encouraging them with inspirations, the world will change, but you will not be the reason for it.*
4 Each person should judge [examine; test] his own actions [or achievements; work] and not compare himself with others. Then he can be proud for what he himself has done. 5 Each person must be responsible for himself [will carry their own load]. (italics mine, Expanded Bible)
That is a question that comes up now and again...as leaders we need to help those around us give the right answer.